Opinions

every one has opinions and everyone has the right to voice their own opinions but no one has the right to judge, be rude and attack someone for their opinions...

as a member of many mothers forums i have found the some mothers are probably the most judgmental, opinionated and rude people i have ever met. they believe because something worked for them and that their children are perfect everyone else should parent like they do and if you dare stand up to them they ignore everything you say and just keep repeating themselves...

as mothers who know we are not perfect and we know every child (not just ever parent) needs a different style of parenting, different style of settling, different style of discipline. we need to become the bigger person and just ignore these people and as much as it can make you feel like your doing the wrong thing or feel like your a bad mum YOUR NOT!!!! only you and you alone now your child and know whats best for them.

every single mother is doing an awesome job just by getting up in the morning and loving their kids, you are an amazing mother because no matter how bad you feel you still get up make breakfast for your kids, get them dressed and love them.. motherhood is the best, hardest, most challenging, but most rewarding job you will ever have and you can never get fired, its your job for the rest of your life....

well thats my opinion on mothers... i am inspired and encouraged everyday by a great group of mothers who know exactly how i feel and how hard but enjoyable life is because they are going through some of the same challengers as i am... we are have very different lives but are there just to listen to remind each other how much of a great job they are. and the biggest surprise is i have never met any of these ladies and they are my closest friends...

i hope and pray that every mother has friends to share the joys and challengers of motherhood...